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Autumn 4th Quarter Journal 2001 October-December

 OCTOBER 2001

 

5 October 2001Friday

Affirmation's Semiannual Mission Reunion will take place Friday, October 5,

7:00 at Spalding Hall, 231 East 100 South that is part of the Cathedral

Church of Saint Mark's Episcopal Church.  The highlights of the reunion will be a potluck dinner and a play that is titled "The Piano Player's Song".  With a little help from his friends Stephen Sondheim, George Gershwin, Burt Bacharach, and others, Brother Butch Richards, a gay Mormon piano player, comes out of the closet. Whether a monologue with musical interludes, or a song recital with lots of background information, Butch's story will touch your heart and lift your spirit.   This is a one-actor play written and performed by ERIC de LORA.   Eric served a mission to southern Germany for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and following his release he graduated with honors from Eastern Oregon University. Advanced study led him first to the University of Utah to work with composer-conductor Jay Welch, then to the University of Iowa where he completed a Master of Fine Arts degree in Stage Direction under the guidance of Beaumont Glass, Cosmo Catalano, and Robert Eckert. He then returned to Clovis, founded a theatre company and had several of his productions tour more than 100 schools each year. Since 1998 he has devoted himself to free-lance performing and writing, completing four full-length plays, one of which, "Circus", was read at the New Rave Festival 2000 in Portland, Oregon.  His directing and acting credits include over 100 works.  Please bring a potluck dish or a $5.00 donation.

 

The following are my current thoughts on the subject of Affirmation's

involvement with the Soulforce Activity planned at General Conference. Your thoughts are needed appreciated. Love, Scott Affirmation's renewed emphasis on proactive education entitled FATE: Family Affirmed Through Education states as one of it's Nine Articles: "We believe that addressing ignorance through non-violent confrontation is a positive vehicle for change."  In October, Soulforce is coming to Salt Lake City to help educate the largely LDS community about

GLBTI (gay, lesbian,bisexual,transgender, and intersex) issues in an effort

to "Stop Spiritual Violence against God's GLBTI children. The activity will likely be a non-violent civil  disobedience act....folks may get arrested, be identified in the media etc. For the past little while Duane Jennings of Affirmation has been talking with SoulForce about how we can best help in this effort. Recognizing that participation in this type of event (a proactive peaceful and direct public action of civil disobedience towards the LDS Church) has not been a tradition in Affirmation and that many of our members have not and WILL not wish to participate (which is their total and proper right) as Executive Director, I believe the organizations best response is to support individual members in their participation but not "officially endorse" the activity as, in a sense, a Co-Sponsor.

 

Affirmation certainly supports the goals of Soulforce which include 1.

Researching and applying the soul force principles of Gandhi and King to the struggle for justice for all people. 2. Introducing soul force principles to people of faith, students and justice activists through lectures, workshops and seminars. 3. Organizing and training volunteer teams who will apply soul force principles to local and regional struggles agains injustice etc.  and we are honored to have

the "specific cause of our GLBTI Mormon people" among their efforts.  By choosing not to "officialy" endorse the activity, this means is that we will not officially participate "as Affirmation: Gay and Lesbian Mormons" or donate monies from Affirmation's general fund, nor will we allow the name Affirmation to be used in official newsmedia as a co-sponsor etc. Affirmation WILL however provide information on our listservs, website, in Affinity, and at the Long Beach Conference about Soulforce training and encourage and celebrate with those who do participate.  My hubby Michael and I, as well as several others have indicated a committment to join SoulForce in their efforts in Salt Lake at General Conference. I will not stand there, however, in my official capacity as Affirmation Executive Director but as a proud member of the greater Gay Mormon Community and supporter of Equal Rights for our people and for all GLBTI's! I would encourage any and all to join us.  Affirmation has three very important purposes, what I see as the three legs of the GLBTI and Mormon triangle.  ProActive Education about GLBTI Mormons, Social Networking and

Providing Spiritual and Emotional Support: Creating a Safe and Nurturing

Place.  I believe that in the pursuit of one (proactive Education) we must consider

the impact our activities may have on the others. In providing a safe, nurturing and annonymous (if needed) place for the newcomers and a healing environment for the conflicted I believe Affirmation must carefully assess it's "official" involvement. For some activities, like those supported by SoulForce for Salt Lake, it is perhaps better for us to freely share information, to encourage

personal participation, but remain officially in the background. My thinking about this issue has been a process, not yet complete... Please share your thoughts?

Love,  Scott MacKay

 

 

Utah Gay Men's Health Summit, Oct 5-7, 2001, Silver Lake Lodge at Deer Valley

Creating a More Healthy Self and a More Healthy Community  The first Gay Men's Health Summit in Utah will be held the weekend of October 5-7, 2001 at Silver Lake Lodge at Deer Valley, Park City. "The foundation for the summit is to create a culture where gay men feel comfortable and have the resources to decide for themselves what it is to be healthy," said David Ferguson, Utah AIDS Foundation Programming Director. The volunteer organizers of the Gay Men's Health Summit and its principal sponsor the Utah AIDS Foundation (UAF) have put together workshop sessions with nationally-known presenters covering four tracks: Medical, Spiritual and Psycho-social, Sexual Pleasure and Health, and Gay Relationships.     "Gay men have been so obsessed with HIV prevention that the measure of their health has been solely linked to their HIV status. This summit is an attempt to start the conversation about other important health issues beyond HIV," said Ferguson. The Summit begins Friday, Oct. 5, with registration and check-in from 5:00 - 7:00 p.m. followed by a reception from 8:00 p.m. - 1 a.m. allowing attendees to socialize. Most of the workshops will be presented Saturday, Oct. 6, beginning with an included breakfast and plenary to discuss the agenda and purpose of the summit. There will be a special evening presentation on Saturday, October 6 in the Rose Wagner Performing Arts Center in Salt Lake City in conjunction with the summit, featuring Tony Valenzuela's one-man show The (Bad) Boy Next Door. Valenzuela is one of the gay community's most controversial figures and he presents a provocative and timely story about sex, AIDS, community and family. Performance begins at 7:30 p.m. with shuttle service available from Deer Valley for Health Summit participants. Tickets for the performance are $15 (available from ArtTix, www.arttix.org or 355-ARTS), and are not included in the cost of summit attendance. On the final day of the summit there will be a special session entitled "The Morning After," which will feature a discussion with Tony Valenzuela of the performance the night before. An included brunch will be served and there will be a closing plenary to discuss the summit, share experiences and give feedback to organizers for improvements to next year's summit. UAF has located a donor willing to pay the majority of the cost of attendee registration. Previously registration was $85 single and $160 per couple. Because of the generosity of this donor, attendance is now a suggested donation of $25 per person to cover the cost of the two included meals. For those unable to afford $25, UAF has scholarship funding available as well. UAF wants to give everyone the opportunity to attend who so desires and has worked hard to make that a possibility. Registration is encouraged by October 1st to ensure meal reservations. To register or for more information visit: ttp://www.utahaids.org/summit/ugmhs.htm or call 487.2323 or 1.800.865.5004.

This summit has been made possible by countless hours of volunteer support to develop the programs and is a component of the "The Village," a program of the Utah AIDS Foundation. Accommodations are available at a reduced rate (starting at $140) at The Chateaux at Deer Valley for those attending the conference from outside the Park City area. To reserve accommodations call Deer Valley Lodging at 435.658.9500 and mention the summit. More detailed information about the sessions and events is available from the summit website: http://www.utahaids.org/summit/ugmhs.htm or through the press contacts below.

Press contacts: Robert A Jones                Tyler Fisher

HIV Prevention Specialist                          Youth HIV Prevention Specialist

Utah AIDS Foundation                               Utah AIDS Foundation

801.487.2323  x.12                                      801.487.2323  x.28

 

THE FIRST EVER UTAH GAY MEN'S HEALTH SUMMIT October 5-7, 2001

Deer Valley, Utah For the past two years, gay men from all over the country have met in Boulder, Colorado for the National Gay Men's Health Summit. The idea of

these gatherings was to promote socializing, friendliness and caring among

people who share a commitment to improving the health and wellness of gay

men in the United States. It helped to crystallize a shared vision of creating a multi-issue, multicultural gay men's health movement that links together service provision, personal wellness, and political action. The ball is now in our court. The Utah AIDS Foundation along with our community partners are planning a regional summit that will emphasize and discuss these same issues, but with a more local emphasis. We will discuss issues that are unique to our situations here in Utah and its surrounding areas. Don't be confused, though! Just because the Utah AIDS Foundation is a sponsor of this event, we will be discussing issues that go beyond HIV/AIDS. The idea is that health can only be realized from a holistic perspective. It cannot be achieved from a myopic viewpoint. PROGRESS REPORT FROM THE UTAH GAY MEN'S HEALTH SUMMIT COLLECTIVE

Our summit will be set in fabulous Deer Valley, Utah on October 5-7, 2001.

Not coincidentally, this is the same weekend as LDS Conference which

traditionally provides a good excuse for gay men to re-connect. The autumn

colors will be hitting about then and will provide a gorgeous backdrop for

our retreat. Our summit will feature various tracks including Spirituality; Party

Culture; Sexual Health, Gay Cyber Health; Medical Update; and Relationships. Due to the relaxed setting of the conference space, the emphasis will be less

lecture and more workshop/discussion related sessions. It is the hope of the collective that gay men from the rural west begin developing a cohesive body that is respectful of diversity within itself and outside itself. We have begun shaking the trees for money and are encouraged at the possibilities. Our next major hurdle will be creating a publicity machine that will attract the "grass roots" gay man to our event. If you are interested in being a part of organizing this event, please contact David Ferguson. We are looking for volunteers at all levels.

Look for more information in the coming months and plan on attending! For

more information, contact David Ferguson, Utah AIDS Foundation.

David Ferguson MSM Outreach Coordinator Utah AIDS Foundation

 

 

6 October 2001 Saturday

Workshop about Mormonism at MCC Conference (Saturday, 6 Oct) the Metropolitan Community Church District Conference will be held here in Salt Lake at the WestCoast Salt Lake Hotel, 161 W 600 S in Salt Lake. On Saturday, Oct 6, 10:30am-noon, they will be hosting a workshop entitled "The Mormon Way: Mormonism and Homosexuality". There will be a panel of about 8 people who are gay/lesbian from an LDS background. They will introduce themselves for about 5 minutes telling their involvement with the LDS church, MCC, etc., and then make some comments about their experiences. Much of the time will be spent answering questions from the people attending and making comments within the discussion. There will a couple of other workshops on setting up communications with LDS officials, both by LDS members, as well as by people of other faiths to discussion GLBTI civil rights, religion, spirituality and families.    All are welcome to attend these workshops on Saturday that start at 8:45 and includes the 10:30 to noon workshop dealing with LDS issues.  Rev. Dr. Mel White, Soulforce Executive Director, will open and close this workshop.  His discussion will include a brief presentation of Soulforce principles and the suffering that gays and lesbians experience across the country.

 

Anti-Gay Protests Run Into Backlash Support groups combat them with fund raisers BY KIRSTEN STEWART and FRANK CURRERI   THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE  Several charitable organizations, including gay and lesbian support groups, are reaping rewards from anti-gay demonstrations happening this week in the Salt Lake valley.
   The protests are being staged by Rev. Fred Phelps, pastor of the Westboro Baptist Church in Topeka, Kan. Phelps and his congregation have spoken out against homosexuality since 1991. He gained national attention for protesting at the funeral of Matthew Shepard, a gay University of Wyoming student murdered three years ago in Laramie.
   "What else do you do with lemons, but make lemonade?" said Jessica Hatch, interim rector of All Saints Episcopal Church in Salt Lake City, one of four churches protestors are targeting this weekend.
   After hearing of Phelps' arrival, Hatch invited parishioners to donate money to the Utah AIDS Foundation or the Matthew Shepard scholarship administered by Weber State University in Ogden.
   "It's a way of staging a counterprotest quietly and effectively," said Hatch.
   Becky Moss, producer of "Concerning Gays and Lesbians," a radio show on KRCL- FM, also started a fund drive. As of Friday, Moss had raised $800.
   She is asking donors to pledge money for every minute Phelps protests or every time he uses a derogatory word, such as "fag" or "dike." Moss suggests donors make pledges to groups such as the Gay and Lesbian Community Center of Utah or the University of Utah's Gay and Lesbian Student Union.
   According to a flier Phelps faxed last week to news organizations, his visit to Utah marks the third anniversary of Shepard's "entry into hell."
   Referring to the Sept. 11 attacks, the flier states that "the rod of God hath smitten" America for surrendering to the gay agenda. It says the University of Utah and several area churches of different denominations are "prime examples of this irreversible apostasy."
   Phelps' anti-gay demonstrators, up to 20 strong, waged their first protest Friday on a stretch of public sidewalk near 1200 East and 300 South in peaceful fashion, said Salt Lake City police Sgt. Fred Louis. The city had granted the group an hourlong permit to carry out its protests, during which protestors held signs reading "God Hates Fags" and "God Hates America."
   Police officers were on hand to ensure the display remained orderly, Louis said, but never intervened except to remind protestors to stay out of the roadway.
   Picketers also plan to appear this weekend at churches they believe to be sympathetic to gays and lesbians, such as The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, All Saints Episcopal, Our Savior's Lutheran and United Church of Christ.

 

7 October 2001Sunday

Sunday October 7, at 5:00 will be the traditional "After Conference Sunday

Fireside" and will be held at the Metropolitan Community Church, 823 South

600 East. The featured guest speaker is Salt Lake Tribune humor columnist Robert Kirby's whose weekly religion article is syndicated in newspapers across the country exposing the humor, humanity and spiritual struggles of Mormons and other people of faith.  He also has two additional columns of a more secular

manner in the Tuesday and Thursday editions of the Tribune.  Robert Kirby was

raised in a military family. After serving an LDS mission to South America, Kirby became a police officer. He has since been an editor, correspondent and columnist for a variety of newspapers. He is the author of five books of demented humor. His novel Dark Angel was released last Christmas and he soon will be releasing a book about his escapades as a police officer. More information regarding Mr. Kirby's books can be found on the Internet at ww.KirbyBooks.com.

Mr. Kirby has been writing for the Tribune since 1994. He has three daughters

and one (only) wife. He lives with his long-suffering family in Springville,

where his neighbors no longer speak to him. These two events promise to be highlights of this year's Affirmation activities along the Wasatch Front

 

12 October 2001 Friday

Worthy Cause: Centerpeace, the annual fund-raiser for the Gay and Lesbian Community Center of Utah, will feature three stages of entertainment this year, with performances by the likes of Lisa Marie & The Codependents and Gearl Jam, and many others, and emceed by the always-entertaining Babs Delay. Aside from hours of music and dancing, there will be a cash bar, silent auction and special-guest appearances by Mayor Rocky Anderson, state Rep. Jackie Biskupski, artist Trevor Southey and TV newsman Chris Vanocur. Tickets are $25; $15 for kids, to benefit the Center's ongoing programs and new youth center. Centerpeace is Saturday, 6:30 p.m. to midnight, at the Gay and Lesbian Community Center of Utah, 361 N. 300 West.

 

17 October 2001 Wednesday

I took off right after school to head to California to see Mom and Dad over  DEA break. I spent the night in Cedar City.

 

18 October 2001 Thursday

I arrived in Palmdale about 3 and Mom and Dad took me out to dinner. I saw a lot of small American flags on cars and everywhere. People say “be safe” anymore instead of goodbye

 

21 October 2001 Sunday

I left out early this morning and drove straight through back to Salt Lake City for school tomorrow.  It was a good visit and Charline and Dennis came up yesterday

22 October 2001 Monday

Adoption Dispute-Lesbian Parents Debate Ruzicka On National TV BY GREG BURTON   THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE  Gayle Ruzicka is the mother of a dozen and grandmother of 18 who likes to do needlepoint in the gallery of Utah's House of Representatives while reigning as self-appointed overseer of the state's moral climate.
   Cristy Gleave and Roni Wilcox are the lesbian parents of a 2-year-old son, Yeager. In their spare time, they have spearheaded the fight over a Utah law that effectively bans homosexual couples from adopting children.
   Will they "Talk or Walk"?
   They do mostly the former on a new nationally syndicated talk show set to air in Utah on Thursday at 9 a.m. on KJZZ-TV and across America on Chicago WGN Superstation.
   Pitched to the world as "Lesbian couple challenges homophobes," Gleave, Wilcox and Ruzicka go nose to nose on homosexuality and the fitness of gay couples to adopt and raise children in a show taped in September. The sparring is predictable, but the ending  --  when the audience votes on whether the combatants should talk further or walk away forever  --  is surprising.
   A hint: A Los Angeles audience demands one thing and Gleave and Wilcox do just the opposite.
   Not quite two years ago, Eagle Forum state President Ruzicka led her followers to Capitol Hill to successfully lobby for a law denying unmarried, sexually involved couples the right to adopt. Gays contend the law is aimed straight at them.
   Wilcox conceived Yeager after she and Gleave chose to become parents. Gleave was in the process of legally adopting Yeager while Ruzicka was helping pass the law that would prevent such adoptions from ever happening again in Utah.
   "I saw their little boy," Ruzicka says about her brief encounter with Gleave and Wilcox in Los Angeles. "I was in a big hurry and they were carrying him in the hall  --  a cute little boy and, of course, I love little children.
   "It's their choice if they choose to live an immoral, illegal lifestyle. . . . I don't go down to the local Stonewall Center and carry a sign and protest their lifestyle choice. I get involved when they want to change laws, when they want to accommodate their sexual choices, or when they want to recruit children through schools."
   Reminded that it was she, not Gleave and Wilcox, who went about changing existing adoption law, Ruzicka argues that the authors of the original law never intended gays to be parents.
   If Gleave and Wilcox choose to become parents a second time, Utah law will treat Yeager and his sibling differently. For instance, because Gleave was allowed to adopt Yeager, he benefits from her health insurance and, in the event she dies, from her estate. Yeager's sibling would not enjoy the same rights.
   When producers at "Talk or Walk" approached Gleave and Wilcox for a show based on their story, the Salt Lake couple at first declined. When Ruzicka was suggested as the perfect foil, Gleave says she was pleasantly intrigued.
   "Gayle was actually perfect," Gleave says. "The more she spews her ugliness, the more normal people tend to empathize with me. . . . I just want her to stop. Stop spreading her message of hate. If she feels that way, fine, but shut up about it."

27 October 2001 Saturday

The Utah AIDS Foundation is bringing "Gay Bingo" to town, in conjunction with Gay Comedy Jam, featuring the fabulous, the sassy and most of all the gut-wrenching comedy of Mark Davis. Enjoy a fabulous evening of enchanting encounters and wanton comedy.  Bingo prizes include tickets to the 2002 Winter Olympic Games, plus TONS of other exciting prizes! Gay Bingo will feature 8 games of bingo followed by the comedy act of Mark Davis.  Visit Davis' website for more info on his act: http://www.markmavisdavis.com  Gay Bingo has been a hugely popular event in cities across the country for over a decade and we thought it's about time for Gay Bingo in Utah.  We're hoping this will be a fun, exciting event and are planning to hold Gay Bingo quarterly...the next incarnation will come the third week of January.  Gay Bingo will take place on Saturday, October 27th at 8pm in the Sheraton Hotel (150 W. 500 South).  Tickets are $25 (credit cards accepted).  For tickets call 487.2323.

 

NOVEMBER 2001

2 November 2001 Friday

Please share the information below about Judy Shepard's visit to Weber State University on Friday, November 2: Judy Shepard, Mathew Shepard's mother, will be visiting the Weber State campus to deliver the keynote address at the 3rd Annual WSU Diversity Conference November 2, 2001 at 11:00 AM in Shepard Union Ballroom. Judy Shepard is well known for her efforts working for gay and lesbian equality, and helping to prevent hate crimes. A Reception in Honor of Judy Shepard and the Matthew Shepard Scholarship recipients will be held on Friday  November 2, 2001 from 3:30 until 5:00 PM in the Stewart Library Special Collections  area. Alicia Suazo and Jackie Biskupski will also speak briefly at this event. The general public is invited, it is free. For more information see http://weber.edu/matthewshepard/

 

3 November 2001 Saturday

Mother Pleads for End to Hatred -She tells WSU conference her gay son was slain out of ignorance BY LISA ROSKELLEY   SPECIAL TO THE TRIBUNE
OGDEN  --  Without the kind of hate that killed her son, Judy Shepard said, the world would be "safer, happier and oh, so much more productive."
   Matthew Shepard, a gay University of Wyoming student, was robbed, beaten and left tied to a fence in freezing temperatures in October 1998.
   On Friday, his mother visited Weber State University to speak against hate crimes, saying her son is dead "because two men learned it is OK to hate.
   "Hate comes from fear and ignorance," Shepard told about 800 people in her keynote speech at the university's diversity conference.
   Hate crimes will only end, she said, if people "get over the ignorance," and "understand that God loves everyone." She also emphasized education on civil rights, liberty and respect.
   At times fighting tears as she spoke, Shepard told the group one person can make a difference.
   "Find something that interests you and be part of the system," she said. "Do something. Do something to help your fellow man."
   Hate-crime legislation, she said, should be proactive instead of reactive, and more inclusive of sexual orientation. Utah, along with Wyoming, does not have hate-crime legislation in place.
   People concentrate on their differences more than their similarities, she said, and should move past such thinking.
   "All our hopes for Matthew were killed for $20 and some twisted reason we will never understand," she said.
   WSU last year awarded a full-tuition scholarship in Matthew Shepard's name to senior Emilie Turner. Two other students received partial-tuition scholarships.
   An independent committee of university and community members raised funding for the award.

 

5 November 2001 Monday

Gay Vote Utah's Goal Is Political Clout -Gay Vote Utah Seeks Voice in Utah Politics BY GREG BURTON   THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE In the first effort of its kind in Utah, gay and lesbian residents are registering to vote through a concerted campaign they intend to make a permanent fixture on the state's political landscape. GayVoteUtah began a month ago over the Internet, but will expand through marketing and direct mailings, fliers and, as campaign workers put it, face-to-face "evangelizing." While the campaign's launch coincides with state municipal elections on Tuesday, it is geared toward statewide elections in 2002 and beyond. Organizers are focusing on voter registration and issue-oriented networking within Utah's gay community. "We're trying to be as objective as possible and as nonpartisan as possible," says GayVoteUtah creator David Nelson, a  Salt Lake City marketing and public relations business owner and co-founder of Utah's Gay and Lesbian Democratic Caucus. "We want to get them involved and get them interested," he says. "Get them to vote and make a difference." While get-out-the-vote campaigns are notoriously hit-and-miss, focused registration efforts built around specific issues or targeted to narrowly defined groups can be hugely successful. Labor organizations and the National Rifle Association have long been adept at playing registration politics. A better known, but less successful,  get-out-the-vote campaign is MTV's RockTheVote, which debuted in 1990 but has failed to lift sagging interest among young voters. Registration efforts are more successful when there really seems to be something at stake in an election -- fear of the wrong people winning office, fear of gun control or scaling back programs supported by organized labor," says Utah State University political scientist Michael Lyons. Lyons says fear is a potential ally of Nelson's GayVoteUtah campaign, especially in Utah's 2nd Congressional District where Democratic U.S. Rep. Jim Matheson probably will face a strong and well-financed Republican challenge. Redistricting has put Matheson at greater risk of defeat, saddling him with a reconfigured district that the Republican-controlled Legislature ensured would be more rural, conservative and anti-gay. "The gay population  in Salt Lake County and the 2nd District is certainly not comparable to the population nationally, but on a per capita basis I would think this kind of effort could make a difference," Lyons says. "This is a good example of a focused effort and people with salient concerns coming together." In 2000, Matheson outdistanced Republican challenger Derek Smith by 15 points. Redistricting and a well-funded GOP campaign could play havoc with that margin. Voter apathy also could play a role. With no presidential election in 2002 -- and the nation's attention focused on

Afghanistan and terrorism -- Lyons predicts voter turnout below 40 percent. "When voter turnout is low, small groups matter," he says. "Gay voters in Utah will make a greater impact." Just how politically significant is Utah's gay community? GayVoteUtah asserts that one in 11 voters in metropolitan areas like Salt Lake City is gay, a figure taken from national exit polling data gathered by Voter News Service since 1990. The confidential polls were compiled and reviewed by Rutgers University professor Robert Bailey for the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. In Out & Voting, Bailey concludes that gay, lesbian and bisexual voters in 1998 were 5 percent of the national electorate, 6 percent of voters under 40. In cities between 50,000 and 500,000 people, the percentage of gay voters was 8.9 percent -- "an important and sizeable swing vote." If Bailey's figures are accurate, Nelson says, gay voters in Salt Lake County could be an influential group in 2002. It helps that gays and lesbians generally vote in larger percentages than the rest of the population. At GayVoteUtah.com, readers can find a registration form to print or links to state Web pages with printable registration forms. Once registered, visitors can fill out a survey or hook up to a voter news mailing list. While the registration campaign so far has avoided plugging issues, that could change in the future, Nelson says. Utah is one of only three states with statutory prohibitions against gay adoptions and The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has lent money and other support to campaigns against same-sex marriage in California, Alaska and Hawaii. A hate crimes law that protects gays and lesbians has failed to pass in Utah primarily because a majority of state lawmakers refuse to endorse language that mentions sexual orientation. And Utah's 2nd District is critical to many gay voters who favor passage of the federal Employment Non-Discrimi- nation Act, which would prohibit job discrimination based on sexual orientation -- the same protections the 1964 Civil Rights Act established for race, ethnicity, gender and religion. Matheson has signed on as a co-sponsor of the bill. U.S. Reps. Chris Cannon and Jim Hansen and Sens. Orrin Hatch and Bob Bennett have not. Matheson's continued support for the act could become a key campaign issue. In 2000, Matheson was targeted by a conservative Virginia group linked to House Majority Whip Tom DeLay, R-Texas, for his support of abortion rights and for accepting campaign money from Human Rights Campaign, a gay-rights political action committee. In a series of attack ads, Derek Smith charged that groups supporting same-sex marriage and other "liberal social issues" would expect Matheson's support in exchange for campaign donations. Next election, GayVoteUtah plans to be among the groups watching the 2nd District combatants. By next November, Nelson hopes to have several thousand newly registered gay and lesbian voters. But more than getting out the vote, it is connection, identity and membership that can impact elections, says Utah State University political scientist Peter Galderisi. "I don't want to say gays and lesbians are a well identified constituency here because they probably are not, but they are probably well connected and familiar to each other," he says. "If you can build on that, you can be highly successful."

 

6 November 2001 Tuesday

Washington Blade Campaign seeks to register gay Utah voters SALT LAKE CITY (AP) -- A campaign has been launched to get gay Utah residents to register and vote. GayVoteUtah began a month ago over the Internet, and organizers plan direct mailing, fliers and face-to-face "evangelizing." With the campaign's launch coinciding with the state's municipal elections on Tuesday, November 6, it is geared toward statewide elections beginning next year. "We're trying to be as objective as possible and as nonpartisan as possible," said GayVoteUtah creator David Nelson, co-founder of Utah's Gay & Lesbian Democratic Caucus. "We want to get them involved and get them interested," he said. "Get them to vote and make a difference." GayVoteUtah's asserts that one in 11 voters in metropolitan areas is gay, a figure taken from national exit polling data gathered by Voter News Service since 1990.

 

Standard-Examiner Campaign seeks to register gay and lesbian Utah votersThe Associated Press SALT LAKE CITY -- A campaign has been launched to get gay and lesbian Utah residents to register and vote.GayVoteUtah began a month ago over the Internet, and organizers plan direct mailings, fliers and face-to-face "evangelizing. "While the campaign's launch coincides with state municipal elections today, it is geared toward statewide elections beginning next year. "We're trying to be as objective as possible and as nonpartisan as possible," says GayVoteUtah creator David Nelson, co-founder of Utah's Gay and Lesbian Democratic Caucus. "We want to get them involved and get them interested. Get them to vote and make a difference," he said.GayVoteUtah's asserts that one in 11 voters in metropolitan areas is gay, a figure taken from national exit polling data gathered by Voter News Service since 1990.The confidential polls were compiled and reviewed by Rutgers University professor Robert Bailey for the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force.In Out & Voting, Bailey concludes that gay, lesbian, and bisexual voters in 1998 were 5 percent of the national electorate, 6 percent of voters under 40. In cites between 50,000 and 500,000, the percentage of gay voters was 8.9 percent "an important and sizable swing vote."

 

The Daily Herald Campaign seeks to register gay voters The Associated Press SALT LAKE CITY (AP) -- A campaign has been launched to get gay and lesbian Utah residents to register and vote. GayVoteUtah began a month ago over the Internet, and organizers plan direct mailings, fliers and face-to-face "evangelizing.” While the campaign's launch coincides with state municipal elections today, it is geared toward statewide elections beginning next year.

 

9 November 2001 Friday

'98 Gay Bias Vote May Have Hurt  SLC Councilman-Council May Show Slight Balance Shift BY REBECCA WALSH    THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE  Salt Lake City Councilman Roger Thompson dreaded facing voters a second time.  Nearly four years ago, a green Thompson cast the deciding vote against a new ordinance meant to protect gay city employees from discrimination. Many of his neighbors felt betrayed by their new councilman. And a few vowed to kick him out of office. Thompson now wonders if that controversial vote in January 1998 contributed to his loss this week to Jill Remington Love. "It's always been in the back of my mind," Thompson said after Love collected nearly 60 percent of the District 5 vote. "Incumbency for me was not necessarily an asset. It seemed more a liability. We made some tough decisions in the last four years."
   A moderate conservative, Thompson often was the swing vote on controversial council decisions. Members of that City Council decided to repeal the anti-discrimination ordinance their predecessors had approved just a month before. They also voted to sell one block of Main Street to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They approved $18.5 million in redevelopment subsidies for The Boyer Co.'s Gateway project. And they contemplated a massive outlet mall west of the airport.  
   Thompson's ouster may shift the balance on the nonpartisan Salt Lake City Council, but only slightly.
   Love, 39, a longtime Democrat who worked for former Mayors Ted Wilson and Palmer DePaulis, will be the second woman on the council, joining Councilwoman Nancy Saxton. Eric Jergensen, a 42-year-old businessman and Capitol Hill resident, will replace retiring Councilman Tom Rogan, a devoted liberal. And Dale Lambert, a 55-year-old attorney and former State Democratic Party chairman, will take over for Councilman Keith Christensen.  
   Unity Utah, the fledgling political action committee for Utah's gays and lesbians, focused on Salt Lake City Council races  --  Thompson's in particular.
   Thompson first ran for city office four years ago, touting his vote while a Salt Lake City School Board member to allow the Gay-Straight Alliance to meet at East High School. Many voters assumed that meant he would back Salt Lake City's anti-discrimination ordinance. When he did not, they were angry.
   "People are definitely holding on to that," Unity Utah Director Michael Mitchell said. "[Roger Thompson] was seen as the point person on that issue. And he's bearing the brunt of his vote."
   The PAC sent a questionnaire to the candidates, asking them if they would reintroduce the anti-discrimination ordinance. Remington pledged to do so; Thompson declined.
   Currently, city law  --  adopted nearly a year after the anti-discrimination ordinance was repealed  --  requires city managers to base their hiring and firing decisions on "job-related criteria." And Mayor Rocky Anderson signed an executive order last year that adds "sexual orientation" to the list of classes protected from discrimination in city administration policies.
   "I will do it at the right time," Love said. "It's not going to be the first thing on my agenda. The economy's the biggest thing facing the city. The Olympics and the budget are right in front of us. And we have serious problems on Main Street. That will be my priority."
   Love received Unity Utah's endorsement and a $1,500 campaign contribution.
   Mitchell, Love and even Thompson do not attribute his defeat entirely to that vote four years ago. Love figures Thompson's decision was more symbolic of his ideological distance from his liberal district. And Thompson gives Love credit for hard work and a resonating message.
   With Tuesday's results, two more liberals will sit on the council. And Councilman Carlton Christensen, just elected to his second term, will be the senior member.
   The Salt Lake City Council forms the legislative arm of city government, a balance to Mayor Rocky Anderson's executive branch. Council members generally set city policy and hold the purse strings. But the activist mayor has forced a sometimes-reluctant council to address issues ranging from after-school programs to curfews for dance halls. Anderson may find more sympathy on the council in coming years.
   Still, Keith Christensen does not expect much to change.
   "This will not hurt the relationship with Rocky," he said. "But I don't think this council will form voting blocs. You'll continue to see a divergence of opinions from time to time on different issues. And there will be some fresh looks at issues. That's a healthy thing. I don't expect a major swing."

11 November 2001 Sunday

Cho on Show: "I'm the One That I Want," the film version of comic Margaret Cho's funny and revealing one-woman show, will be screened today at 4:45 and 7 at Brewvies, 667 S. 200 West in Salt Lake City.
   Admission to the show, first of a monthly film series organized by the gay/lesbian political action committee Unity Utah, is $7. A series pass is available for $55. (Brewvies serves beer, so no one under 21 is allowed.)
   Cho's monologue chronicles her Korean-American upbringing, her rise in stand-up comedy, her short-lived ABC series "All-American Girl" and the network's pressure for her to lose weight, and the emotional spiral  --  augmented by alcohol, booze and promiscuity  --  after the show was cancelled.
   Unity Utah will present one film (or double feature) every month through June. Other films slated for the series include: "Fire," Indian filmmaker Deepa Mehta's controversial 1996 film about a lesbian relationship; and the 1994 Australian drama "The Sum of Us," about a father (Jack Thompson) worried about the love life of his gay son (played by a pre-Hollywood Russell Crowe); and, for Mother's Day, a "Rocky Horror"-style interactive presentation of "Mommie Dearest."

 

13 November 2001 Tuesday

Join us for GAY SPIRIT!  Tuesday, November 13. A discussion of spirituality, religion and being gay. Are you a spiritual person, attend religious services, or just find the role of spirituality in gay lives intriguing?  Do you feel you are spiritual without attending any specific spiritual or religious groups? Then join us at the Jubilee Center (309 E. 100 South) at 7:00 p.m. This will be a fun, entertaining, intriguing and informative discussion on the role spirituality and religion play in the lives of gay people.  This discussion is hosted by "The Village," a community-building program of the Utah AIDS Foundation.  The Village mission is to help
build up existing gay community organizations through supporting their events and activities and The Village hosts a few events, discussions and workshops of its own, with the goal of helping gay people feel more connected to the gay community as a whole.  GAY SPIRIT!  Tuesday, November 13 Jubilee Center
309 E. 100 South Salt Lake City  7:00 p.m.  For more information:

14 November 2001 Wednesday

Supreme Court Backs Deadline for Lawsuits in Identity Theft
BY ANNE GEARAN   THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
WASHINGTON  --  Among other action, the court:   Refused to consider a new trial for a Utah killer who claimed he got directions from God and homosexual spirits. Ronald Lafferty's lawyers claim he was not mentally fit for trial.

 

18 November 2001 Sunday

In 'Mormon Boy,' A Fond Farewell To the Faith-'Mormon Boy': Fond Farewell To the Faith BY BRANDON GRIGGS   THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE  Steven Fales could have been a poster boy for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The sixth-generation Mormon became an Eagle Scout, completed an LDS mission in Portugal, graduated from Brigham Young University and married his college sweetheart in the Salt Lake Temple.
   But Fales was living a lie. Attracted to men since adolescence, he tried to suppress his homosexual urges through extensive LDS Church-sponsored therapy. Six years of marriage and two children later, he gave up.
   "I did everything in my power [to live a straight lifestyle]," says the 31-year-old actor. "I white-knuckled it, and I slowly stopped smiling. And I don't believe people can smile unless they're being authentic."
   Now divorced and living openly as a gay man in New York City, Fales returns to Utah this week with "Confessions of a Mormon Boy," a one-man play inspired by his former life. Fales wrote, directed, produced and stars in the 90-minute show, which opens Friday at the Rose Wagner Performing Arts Center in Salt Lake City. Performances run through Dec. 2.
   In a telephone interview from New York, Fales describes "Confessions of a Mormon Boy" as an affectionate, comedic look at one man's futile struggle to "overcome" his homosexuality. The show opens with Fales arriving at the gates of heaven, where he encounters a nightclub-style white velvet rope and a guest list without his name on it. Hoping to persuade St. Peter to let him in, he spends the rest of the play recounting his life story  --  failed therapy and all.
   "This show is done with a lot of warmth and humor," says Fales, an experienced stage performer with more than two dozen productions on his resume, including roles at Pioneer Theatre Company, Sundance Theatre and the Utah Shakespearean Festival. "It was very important to tell it in a humorous way. The last thing people want to see onstage is a victim."
   Considering the LDS Church excommunicated him for homosexuality two years ago  --  "it's like excommunicating a starving man for eating," he says  --  Fales is surprisingly magnanimous in his onstage treatment of his former religion.
   "I see this piece as a Valentine to Mormonism and my kids," he says. "That's the irony. You're going to expect this guy to get onstage and be bitter. But that's not me. I think fondly of some wonderful people in the church."
   Closeted Mormon men cloaked in the respectability of marriage are not uncommon in Utah. But Fales' story has an unusual wrinkle. His ex-wife's mother is Carol Lynn Pearson, the LDS poet and author best known for her 1986 memoir, Goodbye, I Love You, about her own doomed marriage to a gay man who died of AIDS. She also wrote the libretto for the Mormon musical, "My Turn on Earth."
   Contacted at her home in Walnut Creek, Calif., Pearson says she is familiar with "Confessions" and wishes her former son-in-law well. Although she declined to comment specifically on Fales' theater project, Pearson says homosexuality within the LDS Church is an issue that deserves attention.
   "We need to be more aware of the realities," says Pearson, who, like her daughter, knew of her husband's same-sex attractions before they married but believed he could overcome them. "Because every day there are marriages being contracted in the Mormon Temple that are doomed to failure."
   Fales remains on good terms with his former wife and their children, ages 6 and 4, who live in Utah. He gave a well-received reading of "Confessions" in August at a Salt Lake City symposium sponsored by Sunstone, the Mormon intellectual group, and looks forward to premiering the show in Utah, where he believes knowing audiences will most appreciate his religious references.
   Assuming the show succeeds here, Fales hopes to stage it next year in New York, probably at an Off Broadway theater. While autobiographical plays by gay writers are nothing new, Fales believes his tale, with its elements of Mormonism, anti-gay "therapy" and religious exile, is different enough to stand out.
   "It's not just for gay men and women," he says."I think everyone can relate to this story."  Bye, Now
   At Rose Wagner     Steven Fales' "Confessions of a Mormon Boy" opens with a preview Friday at 8 p.m. at the Rose Wagner Performing Arts Center, 138 W. 300 South in Salt Lake City. Performances continue Saturday at 8 p.m., Nov. 25 at 3 p.m., Nov. 29-Dec. 1 at 8 p.m., and Dec. 2 at 3 p.m. Tickets are $15; $10 for students, and are available through ArtTix (355-ARTS). Steven Fales takes on Evergreen and excommunication in Confessions of a Mormon Boy. Steven Fales remembers the first time he walked into a meeting of Evergreen International, the organization dedicated to helping LDS men and women overcome same-sex attraction. A devout Mormon, he had already spent years trying various therapies to suppress his sexual feelings for men, desperately hoping to save his marriage and "turn straight." By the time he came to Evergreen he was ready to be their poster child-the happily reformed ex-homosexual. Then he saw the other people at the meeting. "I'd never seen more rainbow earrings and tight pants in my life," Fales recalls from his home in New York. "It was like a pick-up joint." Fales tosses off one-liners that should come with a rim-shot, but there's also a sadness to many of his recollections. "These 'Evergreen wives' sit at home," he says softly, "praying that maybe if they're feminine enough, their husbands will come home to them. The cost is great for that inauthenticity." Evergreen becomes just one of the targets of Fales' alternately humorous and poignant observations in Confessions of a Mormon Boy, a one-man show making its world premiere at the Rose Wagner Center. Expanded from a version originally presented at the August 2001 Sunstone Symposium, Confessions spins the story of Fales' life-long struggle to deny his sexual orientation, from his earliest encounters through his experiences in "reparative therapy" and his eventual excommunication from the LDS church. That certainly wasn't the path Fales originally saw for himself. The oldest of six children born into an LDS family, he lived the life of the model

Mormon boy-Eagle Scout, missionary in Portugal, BYU student, husband and

father. He also knew from an early age that he had no sexual interest in

girls whatsoever. "My first make-out session was at 17 with this real hottie girl," Fales says. "I was every father's dream, because I was not in the slightest

interested in getting down her pants." He was plenty interested in theater, however, having performed since childhood, including Christmas shows at Caesar's Palace. Fales left home for the theater program at the Boston Conservatory, despite warnings from the director of the musical theater program at BYU that "there's a lot of homosexuality in the Boston Conservatory." But even when he was in the middle of that community, Fales kept up the straight, happy Mormon front. "I dated the Liza Minnelli of the freshman class," he notes. "I'd leave my brownstone dorm room on a Sunday morning, step over the bodies in the lobby from the party the night before and go to the local ward. I even baptized my girlfriend." Ironically, it was only once he was a member of the Young Ambassadors at BYU-after transferring from Boston Conservatory after his freshman year and his LDS mission-that he had his first homosexual experience.

So, like any Mormon boy trying to be good, he tried to get rid of his homosexual attractions. He tried programs by the score-hypnotherapy, phone therapy, evangelical Christian men's support groups, "weekend warrior" groups to heighten masculinity and, yes, even Evergreen. And those feelings didn't go away. Along the way he met and married Emily Pearson, and added yet another layer of irony to his journey. Emily's mother is Carol Lynn Pearson, the popular

Mormon author and poet whose 1986 memoir Goodbye, I Love You chronicled her life with Emily's father, who also was gay. "We decided we were going to write a different story," Fales says of his decision to get married. "We were going to write Hello, I Love You." Seven years and two children later, it was clear that their story would have a familiar ending. Fales and his wife moved to Utah because, Fales recalls "I thought that was the last way we could run away." They finally divorced when "we just stopped smiling," but have continued to have a warm relationship, including raising their children together. "When I did the show at [the Sunstone Symposium]," Fales says, "Emily was in the audience. She just ran up on stage at the end and gave me this huge hug in front of everybody." In Confessions of a Mormon Boy, Fales tells his own personal story, but along the way hopes to debunk the commonly-held beliefs he has encountered on his journey to finally coming out. "I didn't look at pornography [as a youth], I wasn't sexually abused," he says. "For the first 18 months of my mission, I didn't even masturbate. People think you have some compulsive sexual addiction. "In my church court, they asked me if I'd ever sexually abused my son," he adds incredulously. "They had this idea that all gay men are pedophiles." His experiences with LDS church authorities also play a key role in Confessions, as Fales explores the attitudes of church leadership before his eventual excommunication in July 2000. "I don't see the purpose in excommunicating anybody," Fales says. "It doesn't help me recuperate. It's an archaic, punitive, shaming way to be. "There's this idea of 'hate the sin, love the sinner.' They actually hate the sin and ignore the sinner." But Fales is careful to note that Confessions of a Mormon Boy is not an exercise in church-bashing, nor is it a crass gay romp. Rather, it's his attempt to shine a light on some of the assumptions inherent in the way the church and the Mormon faithful deal with homosexuality. "The brethren have inherited a doctrine they haven't even looked at," he says. "Where is the place for gays in God's plan? Let's examine that."

Most of all, Fales says he intends Confessions to serve as his "valentine"

to the faith in which he was raised, though he now calls himself a humanist.

"I'm not getting up on my soapbox to talk about how I hate the Mormon

Church," he says. "I believe in these concepts of eternity in many ways.

Just because there's this incongruity I'm illuminating, or a complexity, or

even an absurdity, that doesn't mean I don't love the church." Fales stops short with a slight gasp. "Did I say that?" Confessions of a Mormon Boy, Nov. 23-Dec. 2, The Rose Wagner Performing Arts Center, 138 W. Broadway. Tickets: ArtTix, 355-ARTS.

 

19 November 2001 Monday

Lafferty Loses Last Court Bid THE ASSOCIATED PRESS    WASHINGTON -- A convicted killer who claimed he got directions from God and from homosexual spirits lost a Supreme Court appeal last week.
   Ronald Lafferty sought to overturn his conviction and death sentence for the 1984 killings of his sister-in-law and niece. His lawyers claim Utah authorities did not do enough to make sure Lafferty was mentally competent to stand trial.
   At the time of his trial, Lafferty heard voices and "buzzing" from God and spirit invaders, who sought human hosts, his lawyers said. He now believes he is Jesus Christ, that he is the most powerful being on Earth and that he can erect shields to ward off the spirits, they wrote in asking the high court to consider whether Lafferty got a fair trial. The court, without comment, left intact a Utah Supreme Court ruling that upheld the conviction and sentence.
   The Utah court ruled earlier this year that Lafferty's religious beliefs, though extreme, did not constitute insanity. The judges also said there was a chance he was acting bizarrely to get an acquittal.
   Lafferty was convicted in 1996 on two counts of first-degree murder. He and his brother Dan admitted they killed another brother's wife and her infant daughter.
   Dan Lafferty also was convicted but given a life sentence because jurors in his case could not decide on the death penalty.
   Several mental health professionals disagreed whether Ronald Lafferty was fit to stand trial, and his first trial, in 1985, was suspended. After numerous evaluations, Lafferty was again deemed fit for trial. Jurors at his second trial convicted him and gave him the death penalty.
   Lafferty was excommunicated from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints after forming a cult called the "School of the Prophets," with his brother in the early 1980s.
   On July 24, 1984, the two went to their brother Allen's house and beat and strangled his wife, Brenda, before slitting her throat. They also slit her daughter Erica's throat. Lafferty claimed he had received a revelation from God to kill  them and two other people.

 

22 November 2001 Thursday

Mike Romero and I went to Little America in Wyoming where we met Bill and Faye to spend Thanksgiving at the restaurant there

 

23 November 2001 Friday

Lafferty's Legal Fight for Life Not Over Yet- Supreme Court refused his appeal, but killer still has options for challenging death sentence BY STEPHEN HUNT   THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE
Despite losing his appeal last week before the U.S. Supreme Court, convicted killer Ronald Lafferty's date with a firing squad could be years away.
   The high court's decision marked the end of Lafferty's direct appeal of his conviction and death sentence for the 1984 killings of his sister-in-law and baby niece in Utah County.
   But defense attorney Michael Esplin said Lafferty may now file writs of habeas corpus in both state and federal courts. "His court remedies are far from over," Esplin said this week.
   Assistant Utah Attorney General Kris Leonard agreed: "It could be a long time before he is executed."
   Leonard said she will request a new execution date from the trial court, after which the defense will seek a stay and the new round of appeals will begin.
   Lafferty, now 60, was tried and convicted in 1985 but won a new trial when the 10th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals found he was not mentally competent. He was tried and convicted a second time in 1996.
   In the next appeal, Lafferty will be able to claim for the first time that Esplin, his trial attorney, was ineffective. Esplin  said he will ask to be excused from the case to facilitate that claim. Lafferty could also once again claim mental competency as an appeal issue.
   During his 1996 trial before 4th District Judge Steven Hansen, Lafferty acted out in the courtroom and verbally abused the judge, prompting an emergency competency hearing that forced a two-week hiatus in the trial.
   The self-described prophet of God claimed he was the most powerful being on Earth, and endowed with the ability to detect the presence of righteous and evil spirits. Lafferty claimed an evil homosexual spirit called "Moroni" was trying to invade his body. But Lafferty said he was assisted by small buzzing "helper spirits."
   Hansen heard eight mental health professionals testify about Lafferty before ruling the defendant was well enough to stand trial.
   Trial testimony indicated that Lafferty, in what he claimed was a revelation from God, was ordered to "remove" the wife of his brother, Allen Lafferty, and two others. On July 24, 1984, Ronald and Dan Lafferty slashed the throats of Brenda Lafferty, 24, and her 15-month-old daughter, Erica, at the victims' American Fork home. The brothers were unable to find the other intended victim.
   Ron Lafferty  --  who chose a firing squad instead of lethal injection after his 1996 convictions  --  has claimed he was framed. In testimony at Ron Lafferty's trial, Dan Lafferty took responsibility for both killings. Dan Lafferty was also tried on capital murder charges but is serving a life prison term because his jury could not unanimously agree on a death sentence. 

 

December 2001

Mike Romero and I were fighting and  not speaking to each other for most of December so I never wrote anything down. Not even on December 31st

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